What makes it so hard is that there is the problem with the misconception, that it is a behavior disorder ...like not wanting to eat your spinach or something like that. Or that it is a catch all term for misbehaving children rather than an actual disorder, when I was diagnoised I was told you could no more choose to have add and adhd anymore than you could choose to have bad eyesight...it's there or not there..and like poor eyesight...if not addressed it becomes worse over time..not better. All the misconceptions over the years about add and adhd, have made it very difficult to get the proper diagnosis...and treatment...leading to even more stress, anxiety, frustration...and self esteem issues...Over the years I have watched the medical community and the general public...do many stupid things...for example, a family member went to the dr to complain about what she now know is fibro...20 years ago..they were saying..it's all in your head..fibro was described back then as basicly..a non-existing condition. We now know different...I just wonder...how many good people will fall by the wayside...before they find the exact biological component...that makes it' acceptable to the rest of the world...my only saving grace is despite whatever was going on with me...is that when I became an adult...It became less about me...cause I was not the only one...it became about us, and when I look at the big picture...I'm lucky...many have not been so lucky...and that needs to change.
It's nice to be important...But it's more important to be nice..."Mr.BlueShoes"... 2009